Tea Training

Tea Training

 

That's what we do and what the young people do. We do the tea training. The tea training is great, because you don't have to stare at each other the whole time, right? If you want to decompress, oh, you could be listening. “Oh, okay, that's nice.” And then you fill in the tea, and then you pour it in. “Okay, oh, all right, okay. Okay, have that tea.” Talking, “Oh yeah, that's nice tea, okay. Yeah, okay.” Decompressing. The spine is turning blue.

 

You don't have to go solve any problem. She's talking about the kid and this and that. And he said, “Well, just tell him to go talk to the principal.” No, don’t answer like this to her. Men sometimes want to just solve the problem. Okay. What's the problem? All right. What is it? Okay. Just do this. Just do that. It's done. Why are you getting all crazy about it? Okay. No, you don't have to solve the problem. Just chill out. Just sit there and make some tea or coffee. You know, if you're into coffee, do the complex one. You're grinding. “Okay. Oh, okay. How'd that make you feel, baby? Okay.” You know what I'm saying? If you want to do coffee, do your coffee. But do something. And then, drink the coffee together. 15 minutes go by, the spines are blue, now you’ve got peace.

 

We did; the tea training, that helped so much. I called all my kids, “Tea training”. We did it with the young people too. Tea training is so good because it takes about 15, 20 minutes and you do it every day. And it's both healthy for you anyway. You're not drinking alcohol, which actually poisons you, right? It's actually called alcohol poisoning which poisons you.

 

But that's actually benefiting you and you're just chilling and just making a tea, and then she can feel your love, because you're serving her tea. It's like 25 years I'm making tea every day for the Queen. Not because I'm a servant, it's because that's a nice time for just to decompress, “All right, tell me about your day, baby.” Yeah, that's a good training. But then it's just no problem -solving needed, right? In that kind of situation, on general stuff, many times no problem -solving is needed. If there is a problem -solving needed, then we do it calmly. No jumping, no anger, no blowing up. That's why it's very important. That's why I like the tea or the coffee. Tea is nice because you don't get dehydrated so quick. Coffee, you get dehydrated quick, especially if it's the hard, express, something like that. You get dehydrated quick. Tea dehydrates a little slower, then, you’ve got a little more time. So, we did a Korean tea or the Chinese tea system. It's a nice little ceremony, too. You burn a little candle. There's a candle also help calm the spine. It's like a natural, ancient TV. You look at a fire; it calms the spine. It's not like social media. Dopamine calms the spine. So, a little candle there, a little incense, or a little tea, smell the leaves. It just calms everything down, takes everything down a level.

 

And then you're letting her decompress, because the women's spine needs to decompress. The spine of the nervous personality has to feel listened to calm down, has to feel empathized to calm down. If they feel that person is not empathizing or not listening, then they feel anger, betrayal, they're not cared for, blah, blah, blah, right?

 

Then what happens? Then it will start aggregating, piling up; it will start piling up. So, one day it's going to blow up, and then create the terrible, unpredictable environment, which will then put it into the risk box, and the man will detach more because now you're in the risk box. You see what I'm saying? He will actually disassociate with you more. He will start separating with you more, because his spine has learned that when “I come close to this woman, my immune

system shuts down. When I get close to this crazy woman, I get sick. Like, literally. What is going on?” You don't know why. Again, it's not because they're dumb or they're bad. It's because of the spine.

 

So that's very important, since you cannot be thirty different female spines for your wife, how can you do that? How can you fulfill the thirty spines that she has in a village with other women? You physically can't do that, right? How are you going to be out there going to war; then come back home and be thirty spines for that woman? It cannot be done. Right? That's why church community is such a heavenly money. This is heaven money right here. This is God money. Why? Look at all these spines, man!!!! Look at all these spines. You understand? (referring to all the women in the audience) That's why it's good that your wife is in this.

A lot of these blessed families are like, “I'm going to be a prepper. All I need is to live on my farm by myself.” Once you’ve got your kids, and your wife starts getting real stressed out, and the animals are not going to do it for her anymore, you're going to start running into problems. You're going to see the need of having some community where she can share her feelings with other spines. Mr. Ed Horse is not going to be helping her out in some problems, okay? Mr. Cow and Mr. Pig don't have the answers to some stuff in the universe, which a wise woman can give

her. 

 

We are talking about it many times, the woman that is talked about in Proverbs, “Sophia” or the wisdom woman in the Bible, is it a young, naked female goddess? No! All the pagan countries have as their female goddesses, what? Young, naked females. Many times, with eighty breasts, symbolizing fertility, etc. 

 

But in the Bible, the wise Sophia woman that was with God from the beginning as the Bible says, is that a naked young woman? No! What is it? It's an ancient, old woman. Is there a value in grandmas? The Western world has forgotten that because everybody has become so isolated, “Oh, I can't be a burden to my children.” They don't care about mom and dad. There's no generational care. “Mom, dad, you're old. Go to the old folk’s home. I'll pay for it. That's what you did for me. You paid for my boarding school and college, so I'll pay for you when you become an old fart.”

 

What?! That's not how people lived. That's not how your great -great -great -grandma lived. I don't care what race you are. That's not how they lived. It was not a monetary transaction like that. It was relational. And they weren't perfect, but it was relational. Like, “This grandpa, grandma loved me. That's why I need to love and honour them when they get old.” Not, “You paid for my college and my debt, so I pay your debt when you're old, dad.” What is this? This is a sign of a dead culture.

 

That's why I'm talking about at least three generations. At least three generations, right? The value of grandparents, old people, so important. Look at all these old women, wise women. Look at all these wise spines. It doesn't mean they're all perfect. You’ve got to try talking to the ones that have got good marriages, okay? Some of them don’t have a good marriage. Avoid them, young people. Watch out whom you listen to. You’ve got to choose wise people, obviously, who have your back, who want you to succeed in your marriage. You’ve got to talk to those kinds of spines.

 

That's what a tribe is. Long ago you had a support system. You weren't an atomized husband, wife, children in some suburbia with a little white picket fence. That has wrecked America and the West. If we do not have tribes, once again, the women who are now 33 % psychopathic in the West, how will you ever heal that? Is it ever going to be healed? You can't heal that with more work and more money and more careers. It's only going to get worse. You can only heal that with relationships turning that spine blue. You see what I'm saying?

 

Then the woman is at peace. She's chill. When her husband comes back, her spine is blue. She'd been hanging out with grandma. She'd been hanging out with auntie. She'd been hanging out with sister. She'd been hanging out with niece and she helped the niece out. Niece had a problem with the cousin, blah, blah. She helped work that out. She feels great. She's a hero today.

 

Husband comes back. She said, “Hey, honey, how has your day been? My day has been great.” Her spine is blue. So, when you come home, you’ve got peace. You don’t have a lonely, atomized, isolated woman with no community and no other spines to interact with, and just nervously thinking “Oh my God! Nobody is here, and everybody's against us. We don't have enough money for this and that. What if the toaster blows up?” and blah blah blah. Then when you come home to that, you're going to be at wartime again.

 

And just as the man will be exhausted, the woman will be exhausted too, and you’ll end up to fight, fight, fight. And the children who have to grow up in that atomized environment, they're going to be so traumatized by the constant fighting, the bickering, the divorce. They're going to be so wrecked, and isn't that what has happened to the West? This post - industrial revolution family model is a total lie. Do not believe it, it’s not biblical, nor has it ever been the case in human history. You must have a tribe and support people. You must. You must. You cannot do this alone.

No matter what the Prepper magazine tells you. You can't do it alone, especially if you want to live with a woman, man. If you all want to live alone, go ahead. Be Mr. Hermit on a mountain. Maybe you can do it alone then. But if you want a woman in your life, she needs about thirty other spines to do with. So, you better have a community. You better have a community. That's why it's so good.

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